I am here to help women remember who they truly are.
HEY, GORGEOUS! I AM BOTA.
I’m a mentor for high-functioning women on a mission to help them recLAIM their worth and step into lives where they are valued, DEEPLY LOVED and recognized.
I don’t do one-size-fits-all solutions,
I don’t ignore your unique journey,
And I am not about superficial changes.
And that makes all the difference.
You’re not just tired of the wrong men. You’re tired of feeling like you have to carry everything on your own.
To be honest, I’m not here to teach you how to be “better” or how to fit into someone else’s idea of femininity.
Most of the women I work with are high-functioning.
They’re strong, capable, and used to handling everything on their own.
They show up. They achieve. They carry responsibility in their work, in their relationships, in their lives. But underneath that - they’re exhausted.
They’ve been living in constant pressure, control, and responsibility for so long, so it’s become their normal. And over time, something shifts inside.
They start feeling disconnected from themselves. They begin to question their value. They tolerate more than they should in love, in work, in the way they’re treated. I ’m here to help you change what’s beneath the surface, so everything else follows. My unique methodology involves deep healing through subconscious mind work, energy alignment, and identity shift.
So If you’ve ever been caught in a cycle of feeling unworthy, not good enough, overburdened, struggling to raise your standards, or finding it hard to build happy relationships by being yourself, I've got you!
Through my mentorship, you’ll learn how to break the patterns that keep you in survival mode, so you can reclaim your worth and step into a life where you are deeply valued, respected, and truly appreciated.
This healing journey is going to be a game-changer for you!
You'll probably hear me say this:
I tell the truth, even when it's difficult. Every session, every bit of guidance, will be the unvarnished truth, since true growth comes from genuine honesty.
Your story's authenticity is what makes it beautiful. It comes from having the confidence to be yourself and embrace both your strengths and vulnerabilities.
You are getting closer to self-love and everything you could have imagined. as you take steps to healing. I'm here to keep trust in your journey, even on days when you may not be able to.
hOW’d i get here?
Can I be honest with you? For a long time, I was very good at pretending.
Pretending the career was fulfilling. Pretending the relationship was fine. Pretending that achieving more would eventually make me feel like enough.
It didn't.
I remember sitting in that fancy office one afternoon, everything around me signaling success, and feeling an emptiness so complete it almost had a sound. I had built exactly the life I was supposed to want. And I wanted out. Deep down, I knew I wanted more freedom…and a life that felt more meaningful than just a 9–5. I KNEW SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE.
The first shift came when I ended a relationship that had been slowly draining everything out of me. Walking away was the hardest thing I'd done. It was also the first truly brave thing. What followed was a season of real healing - raw, unglamorous, necessary. I started seeing myself differently. More honestly. More kindly. With eyes that finally recognized my own worth.
Then came NLP. A new lens. A new language for everything I'd been feeling but couldn't articulate. It didn't just change my mindset - it changed me. And in the middle of all that change, something clicked. This wasn't just my healing. This was my training!
Every hard chapter had been preparing me to walk alongside women who are exactly where I once was. Lost inside a life that looks fine. Longing for something realer. Ready even if they don't know it yet, to come home to themselves.
I stopped settling. I stopped letting the past write my future. And I've never looked back.
THAT BRAVE DECISION MARKED THE START OF MY NEW ERA!
Confession time: I always knew there was more to life than the corporate rat race and karmic relationship — I just had to find it!
I decided to become a professional coach.
And a few years later, I became a hypnotherapist.
Today I help kind-hearted women move from darkness into light. From old wounds into wholeness. From performing a version of themselves to finally fully becoming who they actually are, and building relationships with partners who deeply value them for who they are.
Back then, my life was defined by metrics and resume entries. I lived a life predetermined by society's expectations. Today, the success of my clients and their grateful hearts mean more to me than any trophy or title ever could.
The turning point came in silence.
One evening, sitting with myself after a deep meditation, I had a moment of brutal honesty. I remember feeling, for the first time in years, a sense of direction that didn't come from anyone else's expectations - only my own.
It pointed here. To this work. To you.
I followed it into the unknown. Into the hardest season of my life. Into rock bottom, which turned out to be exactly the foundation I needed to build everything that came after. Since then, every move has been about fulfilling my mission, changing lives one heart at a time.
It all started with one pivotal decision: to follow a path that resonated with my soul.
You can trust me *
*because I’ve been there too*
You can trust me * *because I’ve been there too*
Self-love is leaving behind what doesn’t serve you and finding the courage to follow your heart.
what makes me,me
I'm a Libra, so balance is practically my superpower. My personality type is ENFJ - the inspiring hero. Naturally empathetic, charismatic, and diplomatic. Which, it turns out, makes for a pretty good coach.
The most spontaneous thing I've ever done? Sold my sports car and moved to the sea on a whim. Best decision I ever made. Sometimes you just have to trade horsepower for sunsets and ocean waves.
My favourite drink is cinnamon orange tea - warm, unexpected, and a little spicy. Basically, my personality in a cup.
If I weren't a coach, I'd be a designer. I love bringing beauty into the world and transforming blank spaces into something alive - whether that's a room or a person's sense of self.
I’m a beach lover. I grew up in the cold north - grey, heavy winters that seemed to last forever. I spent years dreaming of warmth and open water. Now I live in it.
It took me 13 years of intense inner work, self-discovery, and mastering my professional skills to reach this point.
Now, I want to help you avoid the same hardships with my proven, personalized guidance.
Here’s how we can work together:
Self-love Magnetism Mastery is the journey back to her.
Through deep healing and mindset coaching, we dismantle everything that has kept you small and rebuild from the inside out. What you find on the other side is not just a better relationship with others. It's an unbreakable relationship with yourself.
And from that foundation, everything becomes possible.
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“In just one session, I discovered more about myself than I had in years. It meant a lot to me. The insights were mind-blowing! I’m incredibly grateful to have met such a gifted mentor."
— Tatyana Kravchenko, actress
"This was absolutely incredible! I experienced such a range of emotions: peace, belief in myself, and the realization that everything is in my hands! Now I know why, what, and how I need to do everything!"
— ksenia fedorova, financier
“Bota is a real deal. I would say, working with her it is like being born again! I’ve had so many awakenings! My emotions are soaring! She found the root cause of my problems and showed me how to address them."
— Temirlan Uaisov, engineer
Feel like we’re the right fit?
fun facts about me
1. fact
I made my debut just as the USSR was making its grand exit. What a time to be born.
Coincidence? I don’t think so.
Growing up during such a transformative period shaped the way I see life, change, and what’s possible.
And today, I help women create their own turning points -
stepping into lives filled with confidence, self-worth, and real fulfillment.
2. fact
Becoming a mom didn't just expand my family; it expanded my soul!
Holding my son for the first time
opened a depth of love I had never known before. It showed me what unconditional love truly means.
Motherhood journey awakened my spirit in ways I never imagined. It deepened my connection to my nurturing, intuitive, and fearless feminine core.
3. fact
Just before graduating from university,
I stepped into the world of modeling and acting - trading my librarian glasses for the spotlight.
And what a ride it was! This journey helped me connect with my inner femme fatale and become the woman I am today.
Turns out, librarians can light up the stage!
4. fact
Being Miss Supranational Kazakhstan and representing my home country on the international stage was an experience that showed me the difference between being recognized and truly knowing your worth.
What stayed with me wasn’t the title, but the realization that true worth is something you define for yourself.
The why behind it all:
I believe that every woman can transform her pain into power and her fears into freedom. My mentorship program makes this possible!